{"id":372,"date":"2022-12-26T11:31:00","date_gmt":"2022-12-26T11:31:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bochenekkrzysztof.pl\/?p=372"},"modified":"2023-09-25T11:38:48","modified_gmt":"2023-09-25T11:38:48","slug":"dom-pusty","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bochenekkrzysztof.pl\/?p=372","title":{"rendered":"Dom pusty"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Po co nam potrzebne s\u0105 dzieci, jaki po\u017cytek mamy z tego, \u017ce kiedy\u015b uda\u0142o si\u0119 da\u0107 im \u017cycie. 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Bywali te\u017c panowie, kt\u00f3rzy czasem zapominali, \u017ce \u017cona, dzieci w domu, a tu laska m\u0142odsza, bez rozst\u0119p\u00f3w. Teraz dzieci, wnuki daleko, ka\u017cdy ma swoje problemy swoje \u017cycie. 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